The binding of hearts – Love between Ahmadis and the Khalifa


Aizaz Khan, Missionary, Canada

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“And He bound the believers’ hearts to one another in affection [to the point that they were prepared to sacrifice their blood in place of your sweat, O Prophet]. If you had spent all that which is in the earth, even then you would not be able to bind their hearts in such a manner. But Allah has placed mutual affection between them [and deep love for you]. Verily, He is the Mighty, the Wise.” (Ch.8: V.64, Tafsir-e-Saghir Translation)

“The binding of hearts” (ta‘lif-ul-quloob) is an extraordinary and powerful expression of love depicted in the Holy Quran. Like the compilation of individual pages into one book, the word ta‘lif means collecting many things into such a state that one name becomes applicable to them all, whether the individual components bear relation to each other or not. (Dictionary of the Holy Quran, p. 27; Lane’s Lexicon, Book 1, p. 80)

Such is the condition of the hearts of Ahmadis and our beloved Khulafa.

Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh once explained how the binding of hearts was a reality manifested in the shape of Ahmadiyyat.

In 1967, while in Denmark, a Christian priest asked Huzoorrh what his status was in Jamaat-e-Ahmadiyya. Huzoorrh replied by saying that his question was incorrect.

“The Imam of the Jamaat and the Jamaat itself are two names of one and the same thing. The Khalifa of the time and the Jamaat itself both unify to become one entity. This is why it is the task of Khilafat to strive to alleviate the pain and suffering of the Jamaat.” (Al Fazl, 21 May 1978)

Indeed, there is absolutely nothing as pure and sincere as the love that exists between Ahmadis and the Khalifa. It is a type of love that transcends tribal, ethnic, national, and political boundaries. It is a love that is, in many respects, no less than a miracle of God.

Flipping through the pages of our book of love, we find innumerable instances that manifest the reciprocal affection shown by Ahmadis for their beloved Khulafa and – even more inspiring – the love shown to us by them.

Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Ira

Once, when Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Ira was unwell, members of the Jamaat prayed fervent prayers for Huzoorra that truly reflected the pain and anguish that a child feels for his ailing mother. As companions of the Holy Prophetsa were prepared to shed their own blood before a drop of sweat appeared on the blessed face of their Beloved Mastersa, so too were Ahmadis ready to lay down their own lives for their Khalifara.

Sheikh Muhammad Hussain Sahib prayed, “O Allah! I pray that all of Huzoor’s suffering be transferred to me instead and he be relieved of it all.”

Syed Iradat Hussain Sahib prayed, “O Allah, I beg you, take two years away from my own life and grant them to Huzoor instead.” (Tarikh-e-Ahmadiyyat, Vol. 3, pp. 329-331)

Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra, Khalifatul Masih IIra

As a child cannot bear to be distanced from his mother, Ahmadis also feel the pain of being away from their beloved. When Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra embarked upon his tour of Europe in 1924, Babu Siraj-ud-Din Sahib Station Master expressed feelings that Ahmadis across the globe still resonate with even today:


“My Beloved Master, we are far from you and are helpless. If it was possible, we would become the dust upon Huzoor’s shoes so we would not have to endure the agony of separation.” (Swaneh Fazle Umar, Vol. 5, p. 475)

This was merely a reflection of Hazrat Musleh-e-Maud’sra love for members of the Jamaat. Huzoorra once said:

“You have someone who has true sympathy for you; who truly loves you; who considers your pain and sufferings to be his own; and who is always praying to Allah for you.” (Blessings of Khilafat, p. 6)

Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh

The scope of a khalifa’s prayers encompasses all Ahmadis. Hazrat Hafiz Mirza Nasir Ahmadrh once said:

“I often pray during the sajda [prostration], ‘O God, in respect of those who have written to me, please relieve them of their anxiety, sickness or worries about their examinations. In respect of those who wanted to write to me but could not, please shower Thy Mercy on them as well. And please show Mercy on those who become averse or lazy.’ I say this prayer because I have a relationship with everyone and deep in my heart lies love and affection for all.” (A Glimpse into the Life of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh, by BA Rafiq, p. 10)


Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IVrh

A day before migrating to London in 1984, Hazrat Mirza Tahir Ahmadrh told members of the Jamaat in Masjid Mubarak, Rabwah:

“I have not gathered you to address you with a formal speech. I simply wished to see you, for my eyes are cooled and my heart is comforted by seeing you. By Allah, I love you more than a mother could love her own child.” (Monthly Khalid, Syedna Tahir Number 2004, p. 36)


Imam Ataul Mujeeb Rashed Sahib writes that an Ahmadi from Canada brought a non-Muslim, Professor Dr Gualter, to meet Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IVrh in London. Ataul Mujeeb Sahib realised that it was his first time meeting Huzoorrh so he thought it appropriate to tell him a little about who he was about to have an audience with. Ataul Mujeeb Sahib writes that when an Ahmadi speaks about the Khalifa of the time, the love he has for Khilafat in his heart naturally manifests itself – as it did when he began to speak about Khilafat.

Dr Gualter then went and had the honour of an audience with Huzoorrh. When he came out of Huzoor’srh office, he shared his observation with his Ahmadi host, saying, “When I met with Imam Rashed Sahib, I perceived that Ahmadis have great love in their hearts for their spiritual leader. But after meeting with their spiritual leader, the Khalifa, I have come to the conclusion that the Khalifa loves Ahmadis much more than they love him!” (Monthly Khalid, Syedna Tahir Number 2004, p. 299)

Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa

Our beloved Imam, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa has immense love for each and every one of us. In the Friday Sermon of 6 June 2014, Huzooraa stated:

“Before sleeping at night, there is no country of the world that I do not visit in my imagination and no Ahmadi for whom I do not pray whilst sleeping and whilst awake.”

One need only glance at the diaries of Abid Khan Sahib to get a glimpse of the mutual love and affection shared between Ahmadis and Huzooraa. The importance of reading these diaries is apparent from the fact that during Huzoor’saa visit to Germany in 2015, a 16 year-old-boy approached Abid Sahib and said that until he had learned about Huzooraa from the diaries, he did not love Khilafat in the way that an Ahmadi should; but having read them he had seen just how much Huzooraa loved the Jamaat and why we needed Khilafat. (Diary of Germany Jalsa 2015, Part 1)


There are countless examples of mutual love to be discovered in these diaries that refreshes and revitalizes one’s love for Khilafat. The families of Shuhada (martyrs) who received personal phone calls from Huzooraa giving them comfort in a way only a Khalifa could; children of martyrs telling how they receive Eidi personally from Huzooraa every year; when Huzooraa told Amir Sahib France that the Ahmadis who were eating lunch after Friday prayers should be well fed and Huzooraa would personally cover the costs if he could not; Huzooraa embracing and consoling the family of a Lajna member of Ireland Jamaat who passed away from cancer; the elderly man from Ohia, USA who said that the rest of the world was struggling and facing increasing difficulties but Ahmadis constantly feel at ease due to the blessings of Khilafat; how carefully and lovingly Huzooraa takes care of each member of his entourage while on tour; Huzooraa visiting the homes of Jamia Germany professors and commenting that when he was unable to visit them during his previous tour he felt a burden in his heart for 18 months; Huzoor’saa many expressions of humility that bring tears to the eyes; journalists who were amazed and touched by the devotion of Ahmadis to Khilafat; Huzooraa continuing to carry out his duties despite being in pain and discomfort, opting to rest in the car during a journey; and the list goes on and on and on.

This love that both the Ahmadis and beloved Huzooraa express for each other are visible to everyone.

A French-speaking journalist from Benin once said to Huzooraa, “Whilst I have been here [at Jalsa UK] I have seen that your people love you very much. They do not worship you, but their hearts are overflowing with love for the Khalifa and in the same way it seems that you sincerely love each and every Ahmadi and you have a personal relationship with them.”

In reply, Huzooraa said:

“This is a sign of the truth of Ahmadiyyat, whereby there is an everlasting spiritual bond of love between the Khalifa and the Ahmadis … this connection and attachment is natural and has been implanted in the hearts of Ahmadi Muslims by Allah the Almighty. It is a continuation of the two-way love that existed between the Holy Prophetsa of Islam and his Companions.” (Diary Jalsa UK 2016, Part 4)

Without a doubt, it is the love for Khilafat that unites Ahmadis across the world. Commenting on this very point, Huzooraa once said to Abid Sahib:

“You were with me on my tour of Africa in 2008 and so you have seen the African Ahmadis and now you have seen the Far Eastern Ahmadis. You will have realised that the love for Khilafat is universal and not exclusive to Pakistani Ahmadis.” (Diary Singapore 2013)

During the tour of USA and Guatemala, Huzooraa commented on the Ahmadis in USA, saying:

“The way they meet and talk is different to the Ahmadis from the UK and Europe but, in almost every mulaqat, after a minute or two their sincerity and their love and loyalty for Khilafat becomes apparent. So, the style amongst Ahmadis in different countries can be different but the love for Khilafat is the same across the world.” (Diary USA and Guatemala 2018, Part 4)

Indeed, the love expressed by Ahmadis for Khulafa is but an evaporating drop from the ocean of love given to us by them. Through His grace and mercy, Allah has bound our hearts and united us in love as a favor from Himself.

It is our responsibility as Ahmadi Muslims to recognise this blessing and Mercy of Allah, be grateful for it, pray fervently for our Beloved Imamaa and strive to build a strong relationship with him through all means available to us.

May Allah continue to shower the Jamaat with the blessings of Khilafat and may He pour down the showers of His grace and mercy on the Khilafat of our Beloved Imamaa, amin thumma amin.

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