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Pray for them, be gentle with them and build their confidence: Khuddam from USA’s Northeast Region meet Huzoor

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Pray for them, be gentle with them and build their confidence: Khuddam from USA’s Northeast Region meet Huzoor

Islamabad, Tilford, 6 September 2025: A delegation of khuddam from the Northeast Region of Majlis Khuddam-ul-Ahmadiyya USA had the honour of a mulaqat with Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad, Khalifatul Masih Vaa.

The mulaqat commenced as Huzooraa arrived in the hall and conveyed his salaam. The amir-e-qafilah introduced the delegation, explaining that the region comprised five majalis, spanning from Boston to Buffalo.

Following this, each khadim had the opportunity to introduce himself, stating his name, family background, academic pursuits and any services he was rendering for the Jamaat. A number of the khuddam were noted to be pursuing careers in medicine.

During the introductions, a young American man named Timothy, who had converted from Christianity a year prior, introduced himself. Huzooraa enquired about the meaning of his name. The khadim replied that it meant ‘honoured by God’. Huzooraa lovingly remarked that by accepting Islam Ahmadiyyat, God had indeed honoured him in practice and not just in name, which was a great blessing. Huzooraa asked what had led him to accept the truth of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jamaat. The khadim explained that his journey began with an “Islam 101” course online, which connected him with the local Jamaat. He subsequently visited his local mosque, participated in the observance of Ramadan and ultimately accepted Islam Ahmadiyyat. Huzooraa advised him that he should acquire religious knowledge, beginning with learning Surah al-Fatihah and reciting it in his daily prayers.

After the introductions, the khuddam were graciously granted permission to ask questions.

Guidance for a new convert

The first question was from the new convert, who sought guidance on how he could continue to progress on his spiritual path and become a better Ahmadi Muslim each day.

Huzooraa advised that the first and most fundamental step, as he had already mentioned, was the observance of the five daily prayers. He should strive to memorise Surah al-Fatihah in Arabic and also learn its meaning, as this would bring great blessings. Huzooraa counselled him to reflect upon its words and endeavour to live by its teachings. Furthermore, Huzooraa advised him to read the literature of the Ahmadiyya Jamaat, recommending that he begin with The Philosophy of the Teachings of Islam and Noah’s Ark. These books, Huzooraa stated, would greatly help in increasing his religious knowledge and deepening his understanding of Islam.

Kindness and respect towards parents

A khadim of Ghanaian descent, currently pursuing a PhD, asked for Huzooraa advice on treating one’s parents with kindness, even when their wishes might sometimes seem unwise.

Huzooraa drew attention to the Quranic injunction to always be kind to one’s parents and to obey them, with the crucial exception of matters that contradict the commandments of Allah and the true teachings of Islam. Huzooraa explained that in all other matters, one should strive to respect and treat them with kindness and Allah would bestow His blessings for this conduct.

Huzooraa noted that a person, upon reaching a high level of education such as a PhD, might feel they are more knowledgeable or wiser than their parents, who may have had less formal education. Huzooraa emphatically counselled against this mindset. Even if one were to become more educated or wiser than one’s parents, the duty to obey and respect them remains. He added that in African tradition, respecting one’s elders is a deeply ingrained value and such good traditions that align with Islamic teachings should be upheld. If parents were to ask for something contrary to Islamic teachings, one should kindly refuse but never be harsh with them.

On pondering and interpreting the Holy Quran

A khadim asked whether an Ahmadi Muslim, while pondering over the Holy Quran, could attempt to derive new meanings and interpretations from its verses.

Huzooraa affirmed that this was permissible. However, he provided an important guideline: if one’s new interpretation contradicts the established understanding of the Jamaat, then one should write to the Khalifatul Masih, present the interpretation and seek his view. If the Khalifa validates it, then it is acceptable.

Huzooraa gave the example of Dr Abdus Salam, who had presented his own scientific interpretations of hundreds of Quranic verses, which would not be possible for general commentators. Huzooraa also explained that the Promised Messiahas presented certain interpretations and the Khulafa have, at times, elaborated upon them in ways that might superficially seem different but are, in fact, not contradictory.

Therefore, Huzooraa stated, one may form new interpretations, but before publishing them, one must seek the consent and approval of the Khalifatul Masih. For mere personal understanding, this approval is not necessary. Huzooraa also mentioned that the Holy Prophetsa stated that the Holy Quran has many layers of meaning (butun), which are revealed at their appointed times. (Al-Tabarani, al-Mu‘jam al-Kabir, Vol. 10, Hadith 10107 [from Ibn Mas‘udra], pp. 105-106)

Engaging youth in the modern age

The local missionary serving the khuddam expressed his concern regarding the challenge of engaging some youth who seem to be drifting away from faith but are attracted to sports and recreational activities. He asked to what extent such activities could be used to bring them closer to their religion.

Huzooraa explained that some form of attraction is necessary to first bring them into the fold. Through these activities, they will at least begin to form an attachment to the Jamaat. Once they are closer, they will naturally start to learn from the good examples around them. Huzooraa advised the murabbiyan and other office-bearers that if they are regular in their prayers, including Tahajjud, possess a firm faith in Allah and have practical experiences of their relationship with God, then sharing these experiences with the youth will inevitably spark an interest in their hearts, gradually drawing them closer.

Huzooraa warned against a harsh approach, as this would only drive them further away. The Holy Quran speaks of the gentle disposition of the Holy Prophetsa, stating, “If thou hadst been rough and hard-hearted, they would surely have dispersed from around thee.” (Surah Aal-e-‘Imran, Ch.3: V.160). It is Allah Who has placed love for religion in their hearts; the task of office-bearers is to nurture and bring out that inherent love.

Huzooraa instructed the murabbi to pray for the youth, suggesting he offer two nawafil daily for them. If the youth see that their murabbi has a living connection with Allah, they will naturally be drawn to him. If sports and other activities serve as the means to bring them closer, this is still a positive outcome. Through this association, they may at least offer their Maghrib or Isha prayers, spend time in good company and hear some words of Allah and His Messengersa.

Huzooraa emphasised the need to explore new and innovative methods beyond traditional approaches. He advised the office-bearers to engage these youth in conversation, asking for their suggestions on how the Jamaat can collectively achieve the objectives set by the Promised Messiahas and the Khalifatul Masih. This should be done in a consultative manner, not a dictatorial one. By involving them and seeking their advice, they will feel a sense of ownership and confidence. Huzooraa cautioned against making them feel inadequate, which can happen through a sanctimonious attitude and stressed this inclusive approach for both youth and new converts.

The true essence of forgiveness

Another khadim asked how one can completely purify their heart towards someone after forgiving them.

Huzooraa gave a profound reply, stating that if the heart is not cleansed, then one has not truly forgiven. After forgiving someone, the relationship should grow in love. The Holy Quran speaks of forgiving and then going a step further to do ihsan (benevolence). This benevolence could be expressed by giving a gift to the person, maintaining good relations with them and praying for them as well as for oneself, asking Allah to purify both hearts. Huzooraa quoted the saying of the Holy Prophetsa that giving gifts increases mutual love. (Al-Adab al-Mufrad, Hadith 594) A small gift can reassure the other person that the forgiveness was sincere and it serves as a reminder to the forgiver to not harbour any hypocrisy or vindictiveness. Thus, forgiveness requires both prayer and corresponding action.

Huzooraa acknowledged that forgiveness is indeed very difficult. He narrated an incident, previously mentioned in his sermons, regarding Hazrat Alirh [bin Al-Hussain] to illustrate the high standard of forgiveness in Islam. A servant accidentally spilled hot water on him. Seeing his master’s anger, the servant, who was knowledgeable of the Quran, recited the verse, “…and those who suppress anger…” (Surah Aal-e-Imran, Ch.3: V.135). Hazrat Alirh immediately calmed himself. The servant then recited the next part, “…and pardon men.” Hazrat Alirh forgave him. Finally, the servant recited the culmination of the verse, “…and Allah loves the doers of good.” Upon hearing this, Hazrat Alirh granted the servant his freedom. (Al-Bayhaqi, Shu‘ab al-Iman, No. 7964) Huzooraa remarked that this incident demonstrates the beautiful standard of forgiveness taught by Islam.

Bodies of martyrs

A khadim enquired about the belief that a martyr’s body does not decompose and that their blood remains fresh, asking if this was a physical reality.

Huzooraa clarified that notions of a martyr’s body remaining physically fresh in the grave are contrary to the natural laws established by God. The natural process of decomposition occurs for everyone.

The true meaning, Huzooraa explained, is metaphorical. The status of a martyr is so high in the sight of Allah that their memory is eternally preserved. When their loved ones pray for them, their memory is refreshed and their sacrifice inspires others to bring about a positive change in their own lives. A martyr leaves behind a profound lesson of sacrifice for the sake of faith and this is what is meant by their memory and blood remaining “fresh.” Their sacrifice continually reminds others of the great purpose for which they gave their life.

The “fragrance” of a martyr spreading is also a metaphor for their good deeds and legacy continuing to inspire. In the Hereafter, Allah grants their soul a new form and a place in paradise, where they are surrounded by spiritual fragrance. This is why the Holy Quran states, “Say not of those who are killed in the cause of Allah that they are dead; they are not dead but alive; only you perceive it not.” (Surah al-Baqarah, Ch.2: V.155). This means that Allah keeps their memory alive on earth and grants them a lofty station with Him.

Conclusion

As the mulaqat drew to a close, Huzooraa graciously advised the khuddam that if they had any further questions, they could send them in writing. He stated that the answers would be sent back to them, which could then be read out for the benefit of others.

Before taking his leave, Huzooraa kindly enquired about the group’s lodging and food arrangements, asking if the meals were to their liking, which they affirmed. The mulaqat concluded with the khuddam having the honour of a group photograph with their beloved Imamaa.

(Summary prepared by Al Hakam)

Answers to Everyday Issues – Part 86: Dice-based board games, men wearing diamond rings and the concept of ummati Nabi

Guidance regarding basic Islamic issues that Hazrat Amirul Momineen, Khalifatul Masih Vaa, has given on various occasions in his written correspondence and during MTA programmes is being published officially below for everyone’s benefit.

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Are dice-based board games allowed in Islam?

Answers to Everyday Issues – Part 86
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A lady from Canada wrote to Hazrat Amirul Momineen, Khalifatul Masih Vaa, stating that she had heard a hadith about games played with dice and wished for advice and clarification on the matter.

In his letter dated 25 April 2023, Huzoor-e-Anwaraa provided the following guidance on this question:

“The hadith you have mentioned in your letter is narrated from Hazrat Abu Musa al-Ash‘arira in the famous Hadith collection, Sunan Abi Dawud. The Holy Prophetsa said, ‘Whoever plays with dice or their pieces [nard] has disobeyed Allah and His Messengersa.’ (Sunan Abi Dawud, Kitab al-adab, Bab fi n-nahyi ‘ani l-la‘ibi bi n-nard)

“The background to this saying of the Holy Prophetsa is that in the pre-Islamic era of ignorance, games of this nature were played as a form of gambling. Furthermore, such games are so engrossing that they make a person heedless of their essential duties and true purpose. It is for this reason that the Holy Prophetsa forbade such games. However, if these games are entirely devoid of any element of gambling and a person does not become heedless of their true purpose; and instead, during some leisure time or whilst travelling, they play a game such as chess, chausar, cards, Ludo, etc., for a short while, which is completely free from any trace of gambling, then there is no harm in it.

“The essential principle is:

إِنَّمَا الْأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّاتِ

“‘Verily, actions are judged by their intentions.’ 

“The meaning of this hadith is also precisely the same as the ruling regarding the use of arrows; they were permitted in warfare or for hunting, but when those very same arrows were used for gambling or for divination to ascertain one’s fate and shares, the Holy Quran and the Holy Prophetsa strictly forbade them. (Surah al-Ma’idah, Ch.5:V. 4, 91)

“Thus, the actual prohibition regarding games played with dice and the like is not merely the act of playing with dice, but rather the misuse of the game. Therefore, the command prohibiting such games does not apply only to those played with dice; rather, this injunction applies to every game and every activity in which a command of the sharia is being disobeyed, or that game and activity makes a person heedless of their true purpose. Consequently, in the present age, computers and the various games played on them, as well as different social media platforms and so forth, are also subject to this same prohibition when a person’s inordinate engrossment in these things makes them heedless of their prayers and the remembrance of Allah, which is the true purpose of life.”

Is it permissible for Muslim men to wear diamond rings?

Answers to Everyday Issues – Part 86
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A lady, also from Canada, asked Hazrat Amirul Momineen, Khalifatul Masih Vaa, whether a man could wear a diamond ring.

In his letter dated 30 April 2023, Huzoor-e-Anwaraa gave the following instructions on this matter:

“There is no prohibition on men wearing a diamond ring, provided that the diamond is set as a gemstone in the ring and there is no intention of fashion, ostentation, or an expression of vanity.

“However, if a person wears it for the purpose of fashion, showing off and expressing arrogance, then it will also fall into the category of that which is forbidden, just as the Holy Prophetsa forbade men from wearing gold rings and silk garments, etc. (Sahih al-Bukhari, Kitab al-marda, Bab wujubi ‘iyadati l-marid)” […]

What is the correct view regarding the concept of an ‘ummati Nabi’ (follower Prophet)?

Answers to Everyday Issues – Part 86
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Someone from the UK wrote to Hazrat Amirul Momineen, Khalifatul Masih Vaa, concerning an answer given on the MTA programme “Rah-e-Huda” regarding a follower Prophet [ummati Nabi]. He stated that the answer contradicted the commentary given by Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra and requested guidance on the matter.

In his letter dated 6 May 2023, Huzoor-e-Anwaraa provided the following guidance in this regard:

“Your point is correct that the answer given on the ‘Rah-e-Huda’ programme causes confusion. Therefore, the relevant department is being instructed to issue the following correct clarification of this question in a future programme.

“The Promised Messiahas attained the station of a follower Prophet [ummati Nabi] solely and exclusively as a result of his perfect obedience to the Holy Prophet Muhammadsa and the latter’s conveying of spiritual excellence. Such conveying of spiritual excellence was never granted to any Prophet before the Holy Prophetsa. And the station of an ummati Nabi was never attained by any Prophet before the Promised Messiahas. Accordingly, the Promised Messiahas states:

“‘Keep in mind, quite a few people are misled when they come across the term ‘Prophet’ with reference to my claim. They think as if I have claimed the kind of Prophethood as was vouchsafed directly to the Prophets of old. But they are wrong in thinking so; I make no such claim. On the contrary, the wisdom and providence of God Almighty has bestowed this status in order to prove the excellence of the spiritual blessings of the Holy Prophet, may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, that He took me to the station of Prophethood through the blessings of his (the Holy Prophet’s) grace. Therefore, I cannot be defined only as a Prophet. Rather, I am a Prophet in one respect and an ummati [follower of the Holy Prophetsa] in the other. My Prophethood is a reflection of the Holy Prophet, may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and not an independent Prophethood. This is why in the hadith as well as in the revelation vouchsafed to me, I have been named a Prophet, just as I have been named an ummati, so that it may be known that every excellence has been bestowed on me through following the Holy Prophet, may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and through his medium.’ (Haqiqat-ul-Wahi, Ruhani Khazain, Vol. 22, p. 154, footnote)

“Similarly, while explaining one of his revelations, ‘What a high design has been accomplished by God’s feeling and His Seal’, [Tadhkirah (English), India: 2019, p. 1906] the Promised Messiahas states:

“‘The divine revelation, ‘خدا کی فیلنگ اور خدا کی مہر نے کتنا بڑا کام کیا’ [‘What a lofty design has been accomplished by God’s feeling and His Seal’] means that God felt that this age had become so corrupt that a grand reformer was needed. So the Seal of God performed this task that a follower of the Holy Prophet, may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, reached the rank of being a follower on the one hand, and a Prophet on the other because Allah the Exalted bestowed the Seal upon the Holy Prophet, may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him; that is, he was bestowed the Seal for the purpose of conveying spiritual excellence, which had not been bestowed upon any other Prophet and that is why he was named the Seal of Prophets. This means that obedience to the Holy Prophet bestows the excellences of Prophethood and his spiritual attention carves out Prophets. No other Prophet has been granted this purifying power. This is the meaning of the hadith عُلَمَاءُ أُمَّتِي كَأَنْبِيَاءِ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيْلَ, meaning that, the divines from among my ummah will be like the Prophets of the Children of Israel. There were many Prophets from among the Children of Israel, but their Prophethood was not because of their obedience to Musa; rather, it was a direct bounty from God. It had no trace of influence of the obedience to Hazrat Musa in it. That is why they were not designated Prophets in one aspect and the followers of a Prophet in another, but were called independent Prophets and the office of Prophethood was bestowed directly upon them.’ (Haqiqat-ul-Wahi, Ruhani Khazain, Vol. 22, pp. 99-100, footnote)

“Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra has also explained with great clarity that the manner in which the Promised Messiahas is a follower Prophet is a station that was never granted to anyone in previous nations. Accordingly, he states:

“‘Hazrat Ibrahimas is mentioned at the beginning of the account of Lutas because Hazrat Lutas was among those who believed in Hazrat Ibrahimas and was a subordinate Prophet to him, just as Ishaqas and Isma’ilas were subordinate to him, or Harunas was subordinate to Hazrat Musaas. They were not, however, follower Prophets [ummati], because at that time, prophethood was granted directly and not through the blessings of a master-Prophet [nabi-e-matbu‘]. This type of prophethood, where a subordinate Prophet is a Prophet from one perspective and a follower from another, is established only in the ummah of the Holy Prophetsa.’ (Tafsir-e-Kabir, Vol. 4, UK: 2023, p. 308)

“Similarly, on another occasion, in the context of the killing of prophets, Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra presents the advent of a follower prophet in the manner of a proof, stating:

“‘This is similar to a situation where we might say that no follower Prophet ever appeared before the Holy Prophetsa and someone were to seize upon these words and begin to claim that a plain admission has been made that a follower Prophet can never appear. Everyone would tell him that the statement here only mentions that no follower Prophet appeared before the Holy Prophetsa. Where did you deduce from this that no follower Prophet can come after him either? In the same way, it is written here that the killing of any Prophet by the Children of Israel is not established up to the time of Hazrat Musaas.’ (Daily Al Fazl, Qadian Darul-Aman, No. 203, Vol. 26, 3 September 1938, p. 12)”

(Compiled by Zaheer Ahmad Khan, Head of Records Department, Private Secretariat, London and translated by Al Hakam)

​​Caregiver burnout: Caring for yourself is as important as caring for others

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Samar Hafeez, Clinical Psychologist and Counsellor, India
​​Caregiver burnout: Caring for yourself is as important as caring for others

Caring for a loved one – whether it is an old parent, a relative or a child – is a meaningful and rewarding experience. Caregiving can be considered a spiritual experience which includes profound emotional connection, mercy, empathy, compassion, sacrifice and deeper understanding of life.

Islamic beliefs on caregiving can be seen as a way to serve God Almighty by caring for another person. As the Holy Quran encourages by instructing its believers to:

“Worship none but him, and [show] kindness to parents. If one of them attain old age with thee, never say unto them any word expressive of disgust nor reproach them, but address them with excellent speech.” (Surah Bani Isra’il, Ch.17: V.24)

The Holy Prophetsa beautifully reinforced this teaching when a man sought permission to participate in jihad. The Holy Prophetsa asked the man if his parents were alive, and upon confirmation, he advised him to strive in their service. (Sahih Muslim, Hadith 2549a). While fulfilling this duty brings immense sense of achievement, caregiving can also be physically and mentally exhausting. Islam strongly advocates self-care, as the Holy Prophetsa advised: “Your body has a right over you.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith 5199)

Hence, taking care of oneself too becomes important, as any unchecked and prolonged stress and pressure on care givers can lead to a condition called caregiver burnout – It is a state of physical, mental, emotional exhaustion that affects a person who helps people with their medical or personal needs. It happens when people take on too many mentally and physically challenging tasks that go beyond their resources.

Caregiver burnout can be an insidious process, and one may not recognise it until it has negatively impacted his/her health and general functioning.

Knowing and understanding the major risk factors and stages of caregiver burnout can help you recognise and manage its symptoms and assist you in asking for help when you need it.

Few risk factors for caregiver burnout are: Unrealistic expectations:  No one can single handedly and exclusively meet physical and emotional needs of another person.  If you are planning to do it all alone, then you risk burnout.

Too many conflicting demands: In addition to the caregiving role, the person might have to cater to other demands such as taking care of household responsibilities, partner, children, and job which multiplies the pressure and stress.

High workload

Excessive workload is an aggravating factor for burnout. Some caregivers might be assisting a person with complex needs and if the person is highly dependent on you, then you risk physical and emotional exhaustion.

Lack of regular self-care

Without adequate quality time for oneself, family and friends, burnout becomes inevitable.

Understanding stages of burnout is crucial to early detection, early intervention and recovery, hence let’s explore these stages along with the symptoms.

Warning stage

Initially caregivers start with lots of energy and motivation, but as the responsibilities escalate one may feel the stress and tension and over a period of time the motivation and excitement wear off. This is known as the warning stage. Some of the symptoms include: Irritability and frustration, high stress response, increased fatigue/lethargy, difficulty sleeping or changes in sleep patterns, sore muscles, gastrointestinal issues like hyperacidity, chronic bloating, constipation or diarrhoea, and poor self-care.

Control stage

In this stage the anxiety develops and increases rapidly. The caregiver might become obsessed with his/her activities and may even deny the exhaustion and overwork. Some of the symptoms exhibited in this phase are: Heightened need for control, impatience, obsessions around caregiving activities, withdrawal from family and friends, denial regarding caregiving responsibilities, guilt, feelings of helplessness, worry and fear, increased body pains and headaches/migraines, dizziness and slowed reflexes.

Survival stage

Caregiving duties begin to feel overwhelming at this point. People who enter this stage show signs of chronic exhaustion. Some of the symptoms include: Mental, emotional, physical exhaustion, isolation from family and friends circle, mood swings, eating in response to emotions, impaired selective or goal-directed attention, forgetfulness, feelings of resentment, loss of interest and motivation, impaired judgement, poor concentration, neglect of other familial responsibilities, procrastination, feeling trapped and overburdened.

Burnout stage

In this final stage the caregivers no longer are able to provide quality care. They might experience physical or mental breakdown. Some of the symptoms associated with this stage are: Chronic fatigue, difficulty learning new tasks, confusion or mind fog, nightmares, vivid dreams, loss of personal identity, decreased sense of purpose and accomplishment, extreme feelings of hopelessness and helplessness, extreme restlessness, emotional numbness, substance abuse, loneliness, signs of mood disorders and anxiety disorders begin to appear along with suicidal thoughts/ideations/attempts.

Prevention and management

A state of burnout is not only hazardous to the individual but to his/her family as well. Some helpful measures that can help prevent or manage this condition are as follows:

Be Aware of the first signs of burnout: Awareness helps in early detection and intervention, which is crucial to quick recovery. Caregivers and their family members should look out for symptoms of burnout in each other. A self-test named ‘caregiver burden scale’ or a ‘caregiver burnout index to check levels of stress and signs of burnout can be downloaded online. This test will give you an idea as to where your stress levels stand.

Identify your stress response: Notice if you are experiencing an over excited stress response such as becoming agitated, overly anxious and aggressive, or whether there is an under excited state like slowed reflexes, feelings of sadness and/or withdrawn.

One-minute diaphragmatic breathing exercise: The key to deep breathing exercise is to breathe deeply, as shallow breaths from the upper chest indicate presence of stress/anxiety in the body and mind. Method: Close your eyes (optional), Start by breathing in deeply through your nose (six seconds), fill lungs with air. Hold your breath for a few seconds (two to three seconds) and exhale slowly through your mouth (for six seconds), repeat the same few times. This is a quick and handy way to relax, when you have very less time.

Practice self-care: Use your time off from work wisely: Catch up on sleep, as a good night’s sleep will help you think clearly, reduces physical and mental restlessness and reenergises spirit. Also eat healthy and avoid processed/ junk food. Furthermore, eat healthy snacks during short breaks, as it prevents dizziness, headaches, and fatigue. It is also very crucial to rehydrate often. Also, do blood routine check-ups at the physician’s office and whenever you find time, engage in activities that you love.

Practice mindfulness meditation: Focus on here and now, this helps reduce the rolodex of thoughts relating to past or future. Also, during intervals, try going on ‘slow mode’, observe and consciously reduce the rate of speed of your body movements. Keep movements as slow and steady as possible, this helps to reduce physical and mental fatigue.

Try out your favourite exercise with calming music: Exercise releases endorphins (happy hormones) which are responsible for elevating mood and cognitive functioning. Exercise and music together are great stress busters.

Yoga: Stretching can reduce the immediate effects of pain or strain. Yoga asanas increase blood circulation and aid in alleviating stress levels and promote sleep quality.

Work as a team: Avoid overloading yourself, always remember ‘you don’t have to do it all alone’. Delegate responsibilities to other family members whenever possible.

Keep realistic expectations from yourself: Embrace the art of surrender. Let go of things that are not in your control and do whatever you have control over in a given situation. ‘Do Not Blame or Force Yourself’. Caregivers usually ask demanding questions like; “how could I possibly think of taking a break when my loved one needs me?”  “I don’t think I am helping enough, should I be doing more?” etc., such imposing questions will only increase anxiety and tension in the present moment.

Gratitude journaling: Write down something you are grateful for at the end of each day, this acts as a buffer during difficult or challenging times.

Keep meaningful social contact and social support: Communicate your concerns with your loved ones or friends. Call someone who understands you, makes you smile, and helps you look at the bright side. Talking to someone whose suggestions you respect and value will enable you to look at your condition from an objective standpoint.

Enhance self-compassion and self-acceptance: Accepting ourselves and showing compassion to self is something we rarely do. Berating oneself is a negative way of coping that can lead to a gloomy assessment of one’s abilities and efforts, which can reduce performance and increase anxiety and conflict as a consequence. Show yourself mercy and forgive yourself for things that were out of your doing. Try to envision your best possible self and recognise failures as a shared human experience and as an opportunity to grow and learn, this helps to increase positive emotions and improve interpersonal relationships.

Prayer: Prayer brings clarity and strengthens your purpose. Small bits of prayers throughout the day, will help you to keep up your mental energy, resilience, hope, positivity and help in keeping anxious thoughts at bay.

Try using respite care services: When you think you are at the point of exhaustion, you can always choose caregiver respite care service to help you manage your responsibilities and health effectively.

Seek mental health support: If you feel overwhelmed then talk your concerns out to a therapist or a psychologist. A therapist experienced in caregiver mental well-being can help you establish healthy boundaries and tend to your emotional needs. Additionally, counselling can also help develop healthy coping mechanisms that prevent burnout in future.

Conclusion

The work of a caregiver requires sacrifice, dedication and persistence which may lead to a belief that you should not take a break or even that you do not deserve one. Some may even feel guilty about being burned out and their subsequent inability to help more. This is however untrue, as much as the work of a caregiver matters, he/she still deserves to rest, to feel content and to be healthy. Attending to your needs and well-being is necessary to be an efficient caregiver/carer.

References:

  1. www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/caregiver-burnout
  2. healprecisely.com/blog/4-stages-of-caregiver-burnout
  3. www.dementiapathways.com.au/view_resource.php?resource_id=39

Beyond the flag: Rethinking what true loyalty means

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Malik Fraz Ahmad, Law student, Bradford

Beyond the flag: Rethinking what true loyalty means

Recently, across the UK, the widespread raising of the British Flags has become a focal point for fierce debate. The groups draping the national colours from lampposts brand their actions as an organic expression of patriotism, whilst critics accuse them of intimidation, with some flags being cut down or defaced.

This cycle of hoisting, removing, and replacing flags highlights how fragile and superficial our understanding of loyalty has become. More pertinently, this tension points to a larger debate. It raises the question of what it truly means to be loyal to one’s country. And, more pointedly, whether Islam, which is so often cast into this debate, is really at odds with such loyalty in Britain.

Many would argue that those who make their home in a new country carry a duty to be loyal citizens. Indeed, Islam takes this duty further, making it a moral and spiritual imperative, and emphasising the importance of contributing positively to society and upholding the law of the land. The Holy Prophet Muhammadsa himself taught that the love for one’s nation is a part of faith. For Muslims, this means that patriotism is not an optional virtue, but an act of religious devotion.

Yet at present, proponents of “Operation Raise the Colours” seem to have declared the litmus test of loyalty to one’s country to be the single, symbolic, and perhaps performative act of publicly raising a British flag. 

This is dangerously simplistic, a distortion of the true meaning of patriotism and a great disservice to those citizens whose loyalty is demonstrated through daily humble acts of service rather than one-off gestures. It is the nurses and doctors serving patients through the night, the teachers guiding children in the classroom, and the shopkeepers keeping doors open for their community. It is this constancy that truly holds a nation together, not a piece of fabric on a pole.

This is not to downplay the significance of flags symbolically. There is no doubt that the flag holds emotional power. It is simple, visible, and immediate. People rally beneath it in moments of triumph and tragedy. In fact, the UK’s largest annual Muslim convention, the Jalsa Salana in Hampshire, which gathers over 40,000 Muslims to promote peace, proudly hoists the Union Flag as a symbol of loyalty to Britain. But ceremony without the substance of actions to back it up is hollow, and risks turning patriotism into performance rather than principle.

The Ahmadiyya Muslim Community has consistently championed this deeper vision of loyalty. The vast majority of Ahmadi Muslims are dedicated and positive contributors to British society. My own family sought asylum here, fleeing religious persecution abroad. We arrived with no financial security, no familial connections and no knowledge of the language or culture, only a deep belief in the values of justice, freedom and tolerance that Britain represents.

Hence, growing up, I never found there to be any conflict between my faith and my loyalty to Britain. In fact, Islam gave me both the incentive and the motivation to integrate, contribute and serve. From a young age, I was taught that loyalty to one’s country is part of my faith, and that service to others is not just a civic duty, but a religious obligation. In my family, this contribution manifests in three generations of healthcare service, and it’s why I chose to study law, to help uphold the principles of fairness, justice and freedom that allowed my family to build a life here. True loyalty then, is not about abandoning one’s faith or identity, or merely hoisting a flag, but about fulfilling one’s duties as a citizen.

This is not merely anecdotal. These are the values and actions that define the majority, yet rarely garner sufficient media coverage. It is more critical than ever for the media and public figures to act responsibly and to hold themselves to a higher standard of discourse, one that promotes understanding rather than hatred. Words matter. Narratives matter. And if they descend into careless generalisations or antagonistic rhetoric, the consequences can be both dangerous and real.

Following patently false claims peddled online last summer, hundreds of violent protestors targeted my local mosque in Hartlepool. Police were attacked with bottles, cars were set alight, and shops and houses were attacked. (“Community rallies around mosque after disorder”, www.bbc.co.uk) And all the while, flags were waved in the supposed defence of Britain.

But what could be more quintessentially British than the work of that very mosque? This is the same mosque which, in recent years, has donated more than 35,000 meals to a local Church’s foodbank and raised £25,000 for the Royal British Legion’s Poppy Appeal. It even hosted a garden party to mark the King’s Coronation. The mob that night may have carried the English flag, but their actions mocked the very values those flags were meant to symbolise.

Yet I still believe in the decency and integrity of the majority of the British public, to see through these divisive narratives and recognise them as attempts to exploit people’s legitimate concerns. This is not borne out of some baseless, unrealistic utopian ideal, but is proven by lived experience. In Southport, we saw how the community rallied round to clean up after protestors, whilst in Hartlepool, a local fundraiser raised £13,000 for the mosque. And in a gesture that speaks louder than raising any flag, the mosque chose to donate every penny of those funds back to local charities.

The local community’s response in Hartlepool last summer is a microcosm of the Britain we should aspire to be: resilient, compassionate, and always united. The Ahmadiyya Muslim Community’s slogan of “Love for all, hatred for none” is a timely one and has never been more relevant, more necessary or more urgently needed.

So put up a flag, or don’t, but either way, we must collectively recognise and acknowledge that this is never exclusively the litmus test of one’s loyalty to their country. We must embrace a more comprehensive vision of civic duty and patriotism, one which is rooted in every individual striving for the prosperity and progress of their nation, using whichever faculties God has bestowed upon them.

Anyone can raise a flag in a moment. True loyalty is less easily attainable, proven in the quiet, sincere service of a lifetime.

This Week in History (5-11 September)

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Kabul, Afghanistan
Panoramic view of Kabul | Wiki Commons: Wellcome Library, London

5 September 1903:

On this day, the Promised Messiahas received the revelation:

كابل سے كاٹا گیا اور سیدھا ہمارى طرف آیا

(He was cut off from Kabul and came straight to us.)

The Promised Messiahas interpreted this to mean the martyrdom of Hazrat Sahibzada Abdul Latif Shaheedra, which was in actual fact like a seed which would become fruitful and would result in large numbers entering the Jamaat. (Tadhkirah [English], p. 659)

5 September 1947:

On this day, Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra delivered his Friday sermon in Lahore, which was historically the first-ever Friday sermon in Pakistan after the emigration from Qadian, India. (Al Fazl, 17 September 1947)

6 September 2016:

On this day, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa inaugurated the Salam Mosque in Iserlohn, Germany. (“New Ahmadiyya Mosque opened in Iserlohn, Germany, by Head of Ahmadiyya Muslim Community”, www.pressahmadiyya.com)

6 September 2013:

During his Friday sermon on this day, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa mentioned Adam bin Yusuf Sahib of Ghana, who had passed away. He accepted Ahmadiyyat in 1956 at the age of 27 and had a great passion for preaching the message of Islam Ahmadiyyat. Through his humble efforts, hundreds of people accepted Ahmadiyyat in Ghana, and for this very reason, he was known as “Yusuf the Preacher”

Huzooraa also mentioned two martyrs, Dr Syed Tahir Ahmad Sahib and Malik Ijaz Ahmad Sahib, who had been martyred in Karachi, Pakistan. (Khutbat-e-Masroor, Vol. 11, pp. 504-506)

7 September 1974:

On this day, the National Assembly of Pakistan, through a constitutional amendment, declared Ahmadis as non-Muslims.

For a deeper understanding of this significant event, refer to Husain Haqqani’s book Reimagining Pakistan and see “1953-1974: A story of a state turning against its citizens” at alhakam.org (6 September 2019, pp. 8-9).

7 September 2016:

On this day, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa inaugurated the Subhan Mosque in Mörfelden-Walldorf, Hessen, Germany. (“New Ahmadiyya Mosque opened in Morfelden-Walldorf, Germany, by Head of Ahmadiyya Muslim Community”, www.pressahmadiyya.com)

8 September 1887:

On this day, the Promised Messiahas replied to a letter of Maulvi Muhammad Hussain of Batala, debunking his allegations and misconceptions. This detailed reply renders an amiable picture of Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmadas, who possessed a mountainous stature in front of every difficulty and had peerless trust in God and His help. (Maktubat-e-Ahmad, Vol. 1, 2008, pp. 303-305)

8 September 1959:

A delegation of the Ahmadiyya Jamaat met the President of the All India Congress Committee, Indira Gandhi. She was presented with an English translation of the Holy Quran and other Jamaat literature. (Tarikh-e-Ahmadiyyat, Vol. 20, p. 512)

9 September 1983:

On this day, during his tour of the Far East, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IVrh delivered the Friday sermon in Singapore. On the same day, Huzoorrh also laid the foundation stone for a new mosque there. This marked a historic first, as it was the first time any Khalifatul Masih had toured that region. (Khutbat-e-Tahir, Vol. 2, pp. 465-478)

9 September 2011:

During his Friday sermon on this day, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa mentioned Nasim Ahmad Butt Sahib of Faisalabad, Pakistan, who was martyred on 4 September. His younger brother, Wasim Ahmad Butt Sahib, and paternal cousin, Naseer Ahmad Butt Sahib, were also martyred in 1994 and 2010, respectively. (Khutbat-e-Masroor, Vol. 9, pp. 460-461)

10 September 1982:

On this day, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IVrh inaugurated the Basharat Mosque in Spain by delivering the Friday sermon and leading the prayer. Following the sermon, Huzoorrh took bai‘at. Later in the day, at 5:30 pm, he addressed a press conference, and at 7 pm, the formal inauguration ceremony took place. During this event, Huzoorrh delivered a speech to an audience of over 2,000 guests from 40 countries. (Silsila Ahmadiyya, Vol. 4, p. 817)

10 September 2004:

During his Friday sermon on this day, delivered from Belgium, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa spoke on the reasons behind the failure of the UNO and other such organisations. (Khutbat-e-Masroor, Vol. 2, pp. 643-664)

11 September 1924:

During the historic tour of Europe, Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra called on the Secretary of the Religion and Ethics Department in the League of Nations on this day, and a topic of mutual interest – world peace – was discussed in detail.

For more details, see:

“Decline and Fall of League of Nations: A timely lesson for UN” at alhakam.org (18 November 2023, p. 00).

11 September 1927:

On this day, Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra delivered a lecture at the Elphinstone Hall in Shimla and made the Muslims aware of their individual and national responsibilities.

For more details, see “Communal harmony, Unity Conference and Muslim rights: Hazrat Musleh-e-Maud’s 1927 visit to Shimla” at alhakam.org (24 February 2023, pp. 13-16).

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Over 230 Canadian khuddam perform waqf-e-arzi at Jalsa Salana UK 2025

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Syed Mukarram Nazeer, Canada Correspondent
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Over 230 Canadian khuddam performed waqf-e-arzi at Jalsa Salana UK 2025, from 24 July to 5 August 2025.

As they arrived in the UK, shuttles transported them to the jalsa gah. They went through the required security checks before making their way to their exclusive accommodation marquee.

During the Jalsa’s three days, khuddam benefitted from the blessed proceedings. They participated fully in Jumuah prayer and the Bai‘at ceremony, as well as attended the general sessions of Jalsa. They also had the opportunity to visit various exhibitions, such as the one by Makhzan-e-Tasaweer, each offering a unique experience.

Canadian khuddam were assigned duties as part of the windup team. Thus, as Jalsa came to an end on Sunday evening, a contingent of approximately 200 khuddam eagerly began working. The windup continued in the coming days, with each day bringing different tasks.

Canada Khuddam

On 29 July, upon completion of their day’s work, a session was conducted with Sadr Majlis Ansarullah UK, Sahibzada Mirza Waqas Ahmad. He welcomed them to the UK and appreciated the contributions to the Jalsa. On another evening, they had the opportunity to visit Islamabad and offer Maghrib and Isha prayers behind Huzooraa.

On 1 August, after Fajr prayer, they performed the final windup of their accommodation marquee and made preparations to travel to Islamabad to offer Jumuah prayer behind Huzooraa. It was an emotional day for Canadian khuddam as Huzooraa mentioned their waqf-e-arzi during his sermon.

Each Khadim was presented with a certificate of appreciation with his name on it.

Following this, they were assembled into four groups of approximately 40 each and photographs with Huzooraa were taken.

Upon conclusion of the day, they moved to the Baitul Futuh Mosque, where they stayed for the remainder of their days in the UK. They visited relatives, did sightseeing in London and eventually caught their respective flights back to Canada. 

At the conclusion of the trip, many khuddam recalled the experience they had – e.g., the challenges, the emotions, the moments of blessings, the presence of Huzooraa, etc. – and shared their overwhelming joy and emotions from this blessed trip.

Pope, purdah and who holds the key to global peace (1925)

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Pope and purdah

It is gratifying to note that under the instructions of the Pope, it is announced “that no woman will be admitted to the sacraments, to confession, or to the nuptial benediction, nor may she act as godmother at baptisms and confirmations, unless her dress conforms to the following rules:

(a) Dresses for adults must descend to just above the feet; children and young girls must have their knees covered. The material must, in no case, be transparent.

(b) Round the neck, not more than two fingerbreadths may remain uncovered.

(c) Sleeves must reach below the elbow.

“A note urges Christian dressmakers and milliners to stand firm against the dictates of fashion. Mothers who allow their young daughters to follow immodest fashions will be refused the sacraments, even though their own attire is not such as to bring them under the ban.

“At Viareggio, Italy’s most fashionable seaside resort, members of a Catholic Association, wearing a badge of office, are stationed at the church doors and ladies whose appearance meets with their disapproval are firmly refused admittance.”

It is understood that inadequate bathing costumes will shortly form the subject of a separate crusade. A covert sympathy with the Pope’s views is indeed noticeable in the press and approval is expressed of a movement among some ladies of the Roman aristocracy for a return to modest fashions.

Reconciliation and harmony

“Every time we indulge in sneers or ridicule, we widen the gap between ourselves and our opponents and make it more difficult to win them over. Not only that, but such indulgence tends to darken our own vision and alienate us from the truth, which cannot be seen clearly in anger or in the spirit which produces sneers. These lapses put off the day of salvation. We make ‘fighting speeches,’ thinking that we are fighting in the cause of righteousness, whereas, in fact, we are indulging our weakness and helping to prolong the day of poverty and oppression. Oh, that we could always bear this in mind and learn to control ourselves in the interests of those we seek to serve! Aye, and in the interests of those who disagree with us. For, unless we have faith that they too, in some way not understood by us, are seeking the Kingdom that we seek, how can we ever hope to win them, or why try to reason with them?” – Brotherhood

America indebted to Prophet Muhammadsa

Today, when America is seriously considering its naval strength, it is interesting to read the words of a learnt Christian writer. He refers to the great scientific knowledge of the Muslim nations and points out that we owe our maritime discoveries to them. I [Khalid Sheldrake] will quote his words:

“It would not be too much to say that it is to the example of the Saracens (Muslims) we are indebted for the progress of maritime discovery; since Spain and Portugal, whence the expeditions sailed that discovered America and the passage round the Cape of Good Hope, had learnt the art of navigation from their Saracenic masters.”

I would further quote him on the subject of commerce. America, the great nation of the West, with its true democratic principles, is reaping today the benefit of a great change brought about by the advent of Islam, although this fact is carefully hidden by the churches of the West. I prefer to use his words, those of a Christian, as I know it would be considered better evidence than the remarks of a Muslim, who might possibly be regarded as biased. Dr W Cooke Taylor (LLD) says:

“The feudal system, which so long was the disgrace and bane of Europe, had no place among the Saracens; whilst throughout Christendom, honest industry was regarded as the sign of subjection and trade esteemed disgraceful, the Arabs gave every encouragement to labour and commerce. The countries that they subdued were long after free from the fatal influence of feudalism; it had never penetrated into Corsica; it was unknown in Sardinia, Sicily and Lower Italy until after the expulsion of the Moors. In consequence of the protection and patronage granted to industry by the Saracenic monarchs, especially in Spain, agriculture and manufactures flourished and commercial communications were formed, which extended from the extreme east of Asia to the extreme west of Europe. The few manufacturers which still exist in Spain are those that the Moors established.”

As to the administration of justice, he says:

“In the Byzantine and Persian Empires, justice was openly bought and sold; corruption was not merely tolerated, but avowed; bribes were offered and accepted in public. On the contrary, the Saracens established a rigid administration of law and so strict was their system of criminal justice that the sovereign, for many years, had not the power of pardoning a man whom the judges had condemned.”

Western people should know the fountainhead of the civilisation of which all are so proud today. The Muslims were the teachers of the world and their wonderful progress came with the wonderful inspiration given to mankind through the life of the Holy Prophet Muhammad, on whom be peace. Islam stands for progress and I appeal to all to study the Holy Quran. – Khalid Sheldrake

The Muslim Prayer

In our country, people generally laugh when they see a Muslim saying his prayers. For them, the act of bowing and prostrating of a Muslim is a veritable source of derisive mockery.

But does not a Christian reverend say, “We bow down before Thee in the dust”? What he professes by his tongue, a Muslim translates into action. His heart and body both bow down before his Creator because the soul and body both owe obligations to God and both discharge them by bowing down in humility and supplication.

Those people who mock the Muslim mode of worship would surely laugh to scorn the Christian way of praying also if they happened to enter a church and see women sitting in their chairs with their eyes closed and hands folded and men standing holding their hats in their hands.

Now, what is the object of prayer? To send up our requests to God and to express our misery is not the highest aim of Islamic prayer. The real purpose of prayer is to give utterance to our feelings of gratitude to the Supreme Being and to seek and establish a right relation with Him.

If one studies the Islamic prayer from beginning to end, one will see that it consists of four parts. The exaltation and glorification of God, the expression of man’s gratefulness for the manifold divine favours bestowed upon him, the invoking of the blessings of God upon the Holy Prophet, to whom we owe a debt of gratitude which can never be fully paid and the admission and acknowledgement of one’s own shortcomings, failures and inadequacy to fulfil the object of his creation.

Hence, we see that a person who says his prayers regularly and in a manner prescribed by the Holy Prophet, peace be upon him, is purged of the dross of sin and his heart is so irresistibly drawn towards his Creator that he gradually establishes such a firm relation with Him that he loses himself in Him and this is the object of man’s creation. – Miss Budd

Universal peace

After several centuries of struggle between the Cross and the Crescent, Jerusalem has again come under the domination of the former. It is believed that this change has occurred in fulfilment of a prominent prophecy, which runs as follows:

“And the sixth angel poured out his vial upon the great river Euphrates; and the water thereof was dried up, that the way of the Kings of the East (the Jews) might be prepared.” (Rev. 16:12)

According to this prophecy, the Christians believed two events to be fulfilled before the establishment of universal peace under the Cross as attending the Second Advent of Jesus. One is the complete dismemberment of the Turkish Empire and the other is the return of the Jews to Jerusalem to be converted to Jesus.

Two hundred years ago, when the Turkish Empire was at the summit of its power, Christians believed that this prophecy would be fulfilled in some way or other when the time came.

When the Crimean War broke out in the year 1853, the Christians held that it was a war which took place in accordance with a prophecy, because it ended in the year 1856 at the close of the Great Period of 2300 days mentioned in Daniel 8:14, which meant the cleansing of the sanctuary of the Holy Land from the Turko-Muhammedan domination. As a result of the treaty that ended the Crimean War, not only were the Great European Powers benefited by slices of Turkish territories, but Turkey also was required to carry out certain reforms and to treat Jews and Christians within the Empire on an equal footing with her Muslim subjects and also to allow them the same civil and religious liberties as well as to grant them equal rights to purchase and hold landed properties. This gave rise to the belief among the Christians that the prophecy of 2300 days had been fulfilled and the prophecy in Revelation 16:12 would soon see its fulfilment.

When Jerusalem was captured by the British in the last great war, the then Prime Minister of England and his colleagues published to the world a New Year message on the fulfilment of this prominent prophecy regarding the dismemberment of the Turkish Empire. These ministers were very jubilant at the success of the Gladstonian policy of “bag and baggage” based on this prophecy. Why was this New Year’s message issued? Because it is the Christian belief that with the dawn of the Millennium and the return of the Jews to Palestine after the dismemberment of the Turkish Empire, the doctrines of the Gospel would be universally diffused and professed, Christian principles would gain a decisive prominence and war also would cease and peace would universally prevail.

Now the Jews have begun to return to Jerusalem, because Palestine is made a National Home for them in fulfilment of the prophecies in the last chapter of Zechariah, as well as in the four previous chapters and also in the thirty-eighth and thirty-ninth chapters of Ezekiel and in the eleventh chapter of Romans. In accordance with this belief, based on the aforesaid prophecies, the method of establishing universal peace by Christianity is now in the course of preparation and is to be submitted before the League of Nations for approval.

An attempt to establish universal peace is a noble thing, but the question is, what will be the result of these human efforts if Jesus does not come down from heaven either in glory or as a thief? All these efforts were in anticipation of Jesus’ Second Advent. If he does not come down from heaven, there will be universal disappointment. There will be on earth no Kingdom of God but only the kingdom of man. According to Christianity, the Millennium is the beginning of the last thousand years. It is mentioned in Revelation 12 that it would commence with the resurrection of the righteous and the Second Advent of Jesus. The ablest prophetic expositors have held that the number of days mentioned in prophecies is really as many years and this view is amply supported by the Bible itself.

Now, the chief thing here is to find out whether the Millennium has dawned or not. If it has, then we have to see if Jesus has appeared, because both events are to occur simultaneously so that the righteous may rise from their graves and reign with Jesus for the last 1000 years. It is so given in 12:4 Revelation.

When we look at the Bible chronology, we find that the 6000 years from Adam had ended in the year 1900 AD and the last 1000 years in the millennium began in 1901.

For the information of the readers, I append here the Bible Chronology of the 6000 years from Adam, which has been compiled by ablest Christian writers after carefully tracing and examining each link in chronological data:

  1. From Creation of Adam to the close of Noah’s Deluge (Genesis 5 and 8:13-14) – Years: 1656
  2. Close of the Deluge to the call of Abraham to Canaan (Acts 7:6, Genesis 11:10-32, Genesis 12:15) – Years: 427
  3. Abraham’s Call to the date of Exodus (Exodus 12:40, Galatians 3:8-17) – Years: 430
  4. The Exodus to the Distribution of the land (1 year, Numbers 10:11 to 13:25 and 45 years mentioned in Joshua 14) – Years: 46
  5. Dividing of the land to the end of Samuel’s Judgeship (Acts 13:20, Joshua 14) – Years: 450
  6. Reigns of the Kings Saul, David and Solomon, 40 years each and Rehoboam 17 years, Abijam 3, Asa 41, Jehoshaphat 25, Jehoram 8, Ahaziah 1, Athaliah 6, Jehovah 40, Amaziah 29, Azariah 52, Jothan 16, Ahaz 16, Hezekiah 29, Manasseh 55, Amon 2, Josiah 31 and Jehoiakim 3 years, when the 70 years of the Captivity of the Jews commenced in the 3rd or 4th year of Jehoiakim’s reign according to Jeremiah 25:11-12 and Daniel 1:1. (All these kings’ reigns are given in 1 Kings 11:43 to 2 Kings 25. – Years: 494
  7. The 70 years’ captivity from Jehoiakim’s 3rd or 4th year until Cyrus’ first year (2 Chronicles 36:21-23, Jeremiah 25:11-12) – Years: 70
  8. Cyrus’s first year to the commandment to rebuild Jerusalem in King Artaxerxes Longimanus’s 20th year (Nehemiah 2, Daniel 9:25) – Years: 82
  9. Daniel’s 69 weeks, or 483 years, commencing in Artaxerxes’ Longimanns’ 20th year BC 445 and reaching “unto Messiah the Prince,” when he rode as a prince into Jerusalem and was “cut off” a few days later AD 32 (Daniel 9:25-26, Nehemiah 2) – Years: 483
  10. Total from the Creation of Adam to the Crucifixion of Christ, AD 39 – Years: 4138
  11. Add to the rest of this Christian Age or Dispensation 1862 years from AD 39 to 1900-1 – Years: 1862
  12. Total from the Creation of Adam to the end of the age AD 1900-1 – Years: 6000

According to this Biblical Chronology, the Millennium dawned 25 years ago. But where is the much-expected Messiah? Where is Our Saviour and Deliverer? When shall the Son of Man descend from heaven in great glory? When shall Jesus Christ come like a thief, as he himself described his second advent? Either the prophecies are false or the Messiah should have come. The prophecies cannot be false, as they have literally been fulfilled.

The Messiah has also come, but not as the Christians expected, because the appearance of the Messengers of God always baffles the expectations of the people. He was the Prophet Ahmadas of Qadian. In his time were fulfilled the above-mentioned prophecies and many others that are found in the religious scriptures of various faiths about the advent of a Great Reformer in the present time.

The Muslims, like the Christians, expected the advent of Jesus Christ; the Zoroastrians expected Zoroaster to come, the Hindus hoped to see Hinduism regenerated by Krishna and the Buddhists believed that the Buddha would come again. Prophet Ahmadas combined in his person the power and spirit of all these Messengers of God. It is vain to expect anyone else to appear. Heaven and earth shall pass away, but no Messiah would descend from heaven, because he who was to come has come and he has descended from heaven in the same way in which Christ himself descended from heaven at the time of his first advent. Blessed are they who listen to his voice and do not follow their own desires. – TK Lye

(Transcribed and edited by Al Hakam from the original English, published in the September 1925 issue of The Review of Religions)

Friday Sermon – Muhammad (sa): The great exemplar (8 August 2025)

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Friday Sermon

8 August 2025

Muhammadsa: The great exemplar

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After reciting the tashahhud, ta‘awwuz, and Surah al-Fatihah, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa stated:

Prior to the Jalsa, incidents in relation to the Conquest of Mecca were being related. I mentioned some of the fiercest opponents who later accepted Islam. There are some other individuals as well. One of them is Wahshi bin Harb. During the Battle of Uhud, this very individual martyred Hazrat Hamzahra and following the Conquest of Mecca, he fled to Ta’if. When the people of Ta’if accepted Islam, he also came and accepted Islam. (Subul Al-Huda, Vol. 5, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 225)

In Bukhari, the incident of Wahshi accepting Islam is recorded in his very own words in the following manner. He relates, “I stayed in Mecca until Islam started spreading in the city. I then went to Ta’if. People sent messengers to the Holy Prophetsa and I was told that the Holy Prophetsa would not confront these messengers.” He says, “I set out with them until I reached the Holy Prophetsa. When the Holy Prophetsa saw me, he enquired if I was Wahshi. I replied in the affirmative. Upon this, he asked, ‘Did you kill Hamzah?’ I replied, ‘Whatever you have been told is correct.’ The Holy Prophetsa then said, ‘Is it possible for you to hide your face from me?’” He says, “Following these words, I left the place.” In other words, the Holy Prophetsa did not want him to show his face so that he would not recall the incident.

He says, “Later on, when the Holy Prophetsa passed away and Musailimah Kazzab stood up in rebellion, I was determined to set out towards Musailimah in order to kill him and thus avenge the murder of Hazrat Hamzahra.” He says, “I set out with the people, and he met his fate (that is, he was killed.) I saw a person standing in the crevice of a wall, and he appeared to resemble a brown camel. His hair was unkempt.” This was Musailimah Kazzab, whom he had seen standing there. He says, “I pierced him with my spear and targeted the middle of his chest until it pierced through his shoulders.” He then says, “A man from the Ansar ran towards him and struck his head with his sword.” This is the manner in which he was killed. (Sahih al-Bukhari, Kitab al-maghazi, Hadith 4072)

Another individual was Sarah, the bondwoman of Amr bin Hashim. She was a singer. Prior to the Conquest of Mecca, she came to the Holy Prophetsa, requested something from him and complained of her state of poverty. The Holy Prophetsa said: “What has happened to your singing?” That is, you used to sing and earn money. She replied: “Since the chiefs of the idolaters have been killed in the Battle of Badr, they stopped listening to songs.” The Holy Prophetsa gave her a camel load of grain. Following this, she returned to the Quraish. Ibn Khatal would dictate satirical verses about the Messengersa of Allah to her. Despite receiving this gift, she did not desist from her misconduct and would sing those satirical poems. This is the same person with whom the letter of Hazrat Hatibra was found. She accepted Islam and lived until the Khilafat of Hazrat Umarra.

Similarly, there was Ibn Khatal’s bondwoman, Fartanah, who also used to sing satirical verses about the Holy Prophetsa. She also accepted Islam. (Subul Al-Huda, Vol. 5, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 225)

Then, regarding the acceptance of Islam by Hazrat Harith bin Hishamra, it is written that he was a popular chief of Mecca and the paternal brother of Abu Jahl. Hazrat Khalid bin Walid’sra sister was his wife. At the time of the Conquest of Mecca, he and Abdullah bin Abi Rabi‘ah entered the house of Hazrat Umm Hanira, as Hazrat Alira was pursuing them to kill them. Hazrat Umm Hanira hid both of them in her home and then went to the Holy Prophetsa to submit that she had granted them protection. The Holy Prophetsa said to Hazrat Umm Hanira, “Whoever you have granted protection to, we have granted protection to.” (Sirat Halabiyyah, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, pp. 133-134)

Harith bin Hisham narrates, “We stayed in that house for two days and then went back to our own homes. We would sit in the courtyard, and no one would confront us, but we were afraid of Hazrat Umarra.” He says, “By God, I was sitting at my door wrapped in my cloak when suddenly Hazrat Umarra arrived with some Muslims. They greeted us with salam and passed by.” He narrates, “I used to feel ashamed that the Holy Prophetsa would see me, because he had always seen me in the company of the idolaters. Then I remembered the Holy Prophet’sra piety, mercy, and ties of kinship. I met him while he was entering the Sacred Mosque. He met me with a cheerful expression. I greeted him with salam and recited the Kalimah Shahadah [Islamic creed]. The Holy Prophetsa said, ‘All praise belongs to Allah Who has guided you. How could someone like you remain distant from Islam?’” Harith said, “By God, I have realised that one cannot remain distant from Islam.” (Sirat Halabiyyah, Vol. 3, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, pp. 133-134 and 146; Imta’-ul-Isma’, Vol. 1, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 389; Subul Al-Huda, Vol. 5, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 250; Usdul Ghaba, Vol. 1, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, pp. 644-645)

Similarly, there is the account of Suhail bin Amr’s acceptance of Islam. He, too, was a chief of Mecca and the same man who had come as a representative of the Quraish to conclude the Treaty of Hudaibiyah. Suhail bin Amr narrates, “When the Holy Prophetsa entered Mecca and gained victory, I went into my house and shut the door. I sent my son, Hazrat Abdullahra, to the Holy Prophetsa so that he might request protection for me from Muhammadsa. I feared that I might be killed.

Hazrat Abdullahra presented himself before the Holy Prophetsa and said, ‘O Messengersa of Allah, my father seeks your protection.’” Although the people of Mecca had already been granted general amnesty and safety, these were the a’immah al-kufr (leaders of disbelief) who had been such fierce opponents that they could not feel at ease and could not imagine being left in peace. In their ignorant thinking, they always feared that revenge might be taken against them. For this reason, Suhail sent his son once again to the Holy Prophetsa.

The Holy Prophetsa said, “Very well – he is safe under the protection of Allah. Let him come out openly (meaning he could walk about freely without fear).” The Holy Prophetsa then said to the Companions around him, “Whoever among you meets Suhail should not look at him with harsh eyes. A man of understanding and honour like Suhail cannot remain away from Islam for long. He has seen that the state he was in was of no benefit to him (i.e., the state of disbelief).”

Hazrat Abdullahra returned to his father and conveyed the Holy Prophet’ssa message. Suhail replied, “By God, (i.e., O Muhammadsa), you were gracious in your youth and you are gracious even now in this age.” Thereafter, Suhail would come and go in peace. He had even taken part in the Battle of Hunain in a state of disbelief, participating alongside the Muslims but without yet accepting Islam. On the return journey from Hunain, he accepted Islam at a place called Ji‘ranah, located about 27 kilometres from Mecca on the way to Ta’if, where there is a well. (Sirat Halabiyyah, Vol. 3, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 146; Imta’-ul-Isma’, Vol. 13, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 386; Furhang-e-Sirat, Zawar Academy, p. 88)

After accepting Islam, a remarkable spiritual transformation took place within him. It is recorded that among the chiefs of the Quraish who accepted Islam at the Conquest of Mecca, none surpassed Suhail in devotion to prayer and fasting or in giving charity. He was known for abundant weeping and would often cry while reciting the Quran. (Usdul Ghaba, Vol. 2, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 586)

Hazrat Abu Bakrra relates:

“I saw during the Farewell Pilgrimage that Suhail bin Amr was standing at the place of sacrifice, bringing the sacrificial animal of the Messengersa of Allah close to him. The Messengersa of Allah slaughtered it with his own blessed hand. Then he called for the barber and had his head shaved. I saw Suhail taking the blessed hair of the Holy Prophetsa and touching it to his eyes.” The hair that the Holy Prophetsa had shaved fell into the hands of Suhail, and he was touching it to his eyes.

He then says, “At that moment, I remembered that this was the very same Suhail who, at the time of the Treaty of Hudaibiyah, had stopped the Holy Prophetsa from writing Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim [In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Ever Merciful] at the start of the agreement, and who had objected to the word ‘Messenger’ being written after the name Muhammad. He had refused to begin writing the treaty until the words ‘Messenger of Allah’ were erased.”

Hazrat Abu Bakrra then says, “I praised and glorified Allah the Almighty, Who had guided Suhail to Islam, and after granting him guidance, had enabled him to progress to such heights of sincerity and loyalty.” (Subul Al-Huda, Vol. 5, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 64)

Another notable achievement of Suhail bin Amr is also recorded. It is said that Suhail was a powerful orator of the Quraish. During the Battle of Badr, while still a disbeliever, he was taken prisoner by the Muslims. He had made a mark on his lips. On that occasion, Hazrat Umarra submitted to the Messengersa of Allah:

“O Messengersa of Allah, remove the two front teeth where he has made this mark. He will never again be able to stand and give a speech against you. (Remove his teeth, for without them in his mouth, he will not be able to speak properly.)”

The Holy Prophetsa replied: “O Umar, leave him. It is likely that he will one day stand at such a place that you will praise him.” Hazrat Umarra wished to have him punished, but the Holy Prophetsa said: “No, do not say anything. A time will come when he will stand at a place and say something that will cause you to praise him.”

He says, “In any case, that time came when the Messengersa of Allah passed away. The people of Mecca became shaken. When the Quraish saw that the people of Mecca were turning away from Islam, and Hazrat Attab bin Asid Umawira – who had been appointed by the Holy Prophetsa as the governor over the people of Mecca – went into hiding due to the deteriorating situation, Suhail bin Amr stood and addressed the people, saying:

“‘O people of Quraish, you entered Islam last – do not be the first to abandon it. By God, this faith will spread just as the sun and moon spread from their rising to their setting.’

“Suhail then delivered a lengthy speech, which had such an impact on the hearts of the people of Mecca that they stopped. Hazrat Attab bin Asid, who had gone into hiding, was called back, and the Quraish remained steadfast upon Islam.” (Usdul Ghaba, Vol. 2, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 585)

Regarding the acceptance of Islam by Hazrat Utbahra and Hazrat Mu’attibra, Hazrat Abbasra narrates:

“When the Holy Prophetsa entered Mecca on the day of its conquest, he said to me, ‘Where are your nephews, the sons of Abu Lahab – Utbah and Mu’attib? I have not seen them. Where are they?’ Hazrat Abbasra replied, ‘They are in seclusion like the rest of the idolaters.’ The Holy Prophetsa said, ‘Bring them to me.’ Hazrat Abbasra mounted his ride and went to Urnah – a valley near Arafat – and brought them back. The Holy Prophetsa invited them to Islam, and they both accepted it and pledged allegiance. Then, the Holy Prophetsa stood up, took them by the hand, and led them to the Multazim – the part of the Ka‘bah wall between the Black Stone and the door of the Ka‘bah – a spot where clinging and supplication is Sunnah, and where prayers are especially accepted. There, he prayed for a while, and then returned. Joy was visibly radiating from his blessed face. Hazrat Abbasra said, ‘O Messengersa of Allah, may Allah keep you happy – I can see the signs of happiness on your face.’ The Holy Prophetsa replied, ‘I had prayed to my Lord for the guidance of my uncle’s two sons, and He has granted me this blessing.’” (Subul Al-Huda, Vol. 5, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 250; Furhang-e-Sirat, Zawar Academy, pp. 59 and 284)

There is also the story of Safwan bin Umayyah’s acceptance of Islam. Safwan bin Umayyah was the son of Umayyah bin Khalaf, a chieftain of Mecca. During the Era of Ignorance, he was among the nobility of the Quraish and one of their most eloquent speakers. He was also a staunch enemy of Islam and among those who inflicted great suffering upon Muslims in Mecca. After the Battle of Badr, he even conspired to assassinate the Holy Prophetsa and instigated his friend Umair bin Wahb to carry out this plan.

Although Safwan’s name was not on the list of those to be executed after the Conquest of Mecca, he still fled in fear, assuming he would be killed. He escaped toward Jeddah and the Red Sea. Umair bin Wahb – his close friend – had by then accepted Islam. He was the same Umair whom Safwan had once sent to Medina, saying, “If you kill Muhammad[sa], I will take full responsibility for your family’s welfare.” However, when Umair reached Medina, the Holy Prophetsa miraculously came to know of his entire plan, and upon witnessing this miracle, Umair immediately embraced Islam.

Now, at the time of the Conquest of Mecca, Umair yearned for his friend Safwan to also accept Islam and was deeply concerned for him. He approached the Holy Prophetsa and submitted: “O Messengersa of Allah, Safwan is the chief of my people. He has fled out of fear of you. Kindly grant him amnesty.” The Holy Prophetsa replied, “He has been granted protection.”

Umair requested, “Please give me some token by which I can show him that the protection is indeed from you.” The Holy Prophetsa removed his own turban and handed it to him.

Hazrat Umairra set out and eventually caught up with Safwan, who was about to board a ship.

He said to him, “I have come from the purest of people, the one who maintains the strongest family ties. Do not destroy yourself. I bring you the Holy Prophet’ssa personal guarantee of safety.” Safwan replied, “I will not return with you unless you show me some token from him that I would recognise.” Umair showed him the Holy Prophet’ssa turban. Safwan then returned with Umair and presented himself before the Holy Prophetsa, who was in the mosque leading the Asr prayer with his Companions.

When the Holy Prophetsa completed the prayer, Safwan called out loudly, “O Muhammadsa, Umair came to me with your cloak claiming that you had granted me protection.” The Holy Prophetsa replied, “Indeed, it is true.” Safwan said, “Grant me a two-month reprieve, for I am not yet ready to accept Islam.” The Holy Prophetsa responded, “You are granted four months. I hope you will accept Islam.” So Safwan remained in Mecca in a state of disbelief.

Later, when the Holy Prophetsa was in Hawazin distributing the spoils of war from the Battle of Hunain and Ta’if, he noticed Safwan gazing intently at a valley filled with livestock. He was looking at it constantly. Observing Safwan gazing at this valley filled with spoils, the Holy Prophetsa asked, “Does this valley full of wealth astonish you (that there is so much wealth therein)?” Safwan replied, “Yes, it does.” The Holy Prophetsa said, “All of it – and whatever is in it – is yours. Take it.” Safwan took possession of all the spoils in the valley and declared, “No soul could give so generously as a prophet. I testify that there is no god but Allah, and Muhammadsa is His servant and Messenger.” And right then and there, he accepted Islam.

Safwan passed away in Mecca in the year 42 AH, during the Khilafat of Hazrat Mu‘awiyahra. Some say he was martyred during the unrest at the time of Hazrat Uthman’sra martyrdom. (Subul Al-Huda, Vol. 5, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, pp. 253-254; Sirat Halabiyyah, Vol. 3, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 135; Fatah Makkah, Muhammad Bashmeel, Nafees Academy, Karachi, pp. 321-325; Usdul Ghaba, Vol. 3, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, pp. 24-25; Sirat Khatam-un-Nabiyyeen, p. 297; Ibn Hisham, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 449)

Many of the chieftains who accepted Islam when the Conquest of Mecca came to pass underwent a remarkable spiritual transformation in their later lives. Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra, referring to this, writes:

“Once during his Khilafat, Hazrat Umarra visited Mecca. The prominent figures of the city, hailing from prestigious families, came to meet him. They assumed that since Hazrat Umarra was familiar with their noble lineage and he himself was now a ruler, he would show them special honour and restore their former glory.

“Thus, they came to Hazrat Umarra and began conversing with him. As they were speaking with him, Hazrat Bilalra entered the gathering. Shortly afterwards, Hazrat Khabbabra arrived. One after another, the early converts – most of whom had once been slaves – began to enter. These were the same individuals who had once served these chiefs or their fathers in bondage. (In any case, as I have already mentioned, all these people who came were slaves to these chieftains.) During their time of power, the Quraish elite had inflicted unspeakable cruelties upon them.

“With the arrival of each of these former slaves – now honourable and respected – Hazrat Umarra would greet them respectfully.”

Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra further writes, “He welcomed each of them as if they were dignitaries. Meanwhile, the chieftains of Mecca were seated ahead in the gathering. Hazrat Umarra began asking them to move back to make space for these noble early Muslims.

“Gradually, the chiefs were pushed back – so far, in fact, that they ended up sitting at the very entrance of the room. In those days, there were no large halls – only small rooms – and because they could not accommodate everyone, these chieftains were asked to move so far back that they had to sit amongst the shoes.

“When the chieftains of Mecca found themselves sitting among the shoes, and with their own eyes, they witnessed one former slave after another being brought forward while they were relegated to the back; they were deeply humiliated.”

Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra writes, “By Allah the Almighty’s doing, it so happened that one after another, such Companions arrived who had once been slaves to the Meccan chiefs. If the chieftains were asked all at once to move back, they may not have had this realisation. However, because they were repeatedly told to move further and further back, they could not tolerate it and went outside.

“Outside, they began complaining among themselves, ‘Look at the humiliation we have endured today! Every time a former slave entered, we were made to move back – until we ended up sitting among the shoes.’

“At that point, one young man among them spoke, ‘Whose fault is this? Is it Umar’s? Or is it the fault of our forefathers? If you reflect, you’ll realise this is not Hazrat Umar’sra fault – it’s our ancestors’ fault, the consequences of which we are facing today. When God sent His Messengersa, our forefathers rejected him, while these very slaves believed in him and endured every hardship with joy. Today, if we are humiliated in this sitting, it is not because of Umar, but because of our own errors.’

“Upon hearing this, the others said, ‘Fine, we accept that this is the consequence of our forefathers’ mistakes. But is there any way to remove this stain of humiliation?’

“They deliberated and decided to ask Hazrat Umarra himself because they were unable to think of anything. They returned to him and said, ‘You know full well what has happened to us today, as do we.’ Hazrat Umarra replied, ‘Forgive me, for I had no other choice. These are the very people who were honourable in the gatherings of the Holy Prophetsa. Perhaps, at one time, they were your slaves, but in the company of the Holy Prophetsa, they were revered. Thus, it is my obligation to honour them.’ They replied, ‘We are aware that this is a consequence of our own mistakes. However, is there any way to remove this humiliation?’”

Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra explains:

“We today cannot fully comprehend the extent of the influence of those chiefs of Mecca at that time. Hazrat Umarra, however, knew their family history intimately, having been born and raised in Mecca. He knew the honour, awe, and prestige the fathers of these youngsters commanded – how no one could even lift their gaze in their presence. He was aware of the awe they possessed.

“When these chieftains said these things, memories of the past came flooding to Hazrat Umarra one after another. Tears welled up, and he was rendered speechless. He simply raised his hand and pointed northward with his finger. His gesture implied: ‘There are some battles taking place in the north, in Syria. Join those battles – perhaps you will be able to atone.’ They understood the message, rose, and departed at once to join the ongoing campaigns.

“History records that not a single one of those young nobles returned alive – they were all martyred on the battlefield. They all attained martyrdom, and thus, they erased the stain of disgrace from their family names through sacrifice.” (Tafsir-e-Kabir, Vol. 11, pp. 97-99)

It is mentioned that in the Battle of Yarmuk, these chieftains displayed commendable bravery and devotion. Hazrat Musleh-e-Maudra states:

“When the battle ended, the Muslims searched especially for Ikrimah and his comrades, only to find that 12 of them were seriously wounded, one of them being Ikrimah. A Muslim soldier went to him and found Ikrimah to be in a very dire state. He said, ‘O Ikrimah, I have a waterskin; here, drink some water.’ Ikrimah turned his face and saw that just next to him lay a wounded Hazrat Fadlra, son of Hazrat Abbasra. Ikrimah said to the Muslim, ‘My pride cannot bear for the people and their progenies who helped the Holy Prophetsa at a time when I was still staunchly opposed to him to die of thirst while I drink water and remain alive (a newfound passion for sacrificing oneself for the sake of others had developed within him). First, give water to him (Hazrat Fadl bin Abbasra) and then if any water remains, you can bring that to me.’

“The Muslim went to Hazrat Fadlra, who pointed to the wounded person next to him and said, ‘Give the water to him first. He is more deserving than I am.’ He went to the next wounded person, who pointed to the wounded person next to him, saying, ‘Give the water to him first. He is more deserving than I am.’ In the same way, every soldier he went to would send him to the next one, refusing to drink the water. When he reached the last wounded soldier, he had passed away. He went back the other way until he reached Ikrimah, but by then, they had all passed away.” (Har Ahmadi Aurat Ahmadiyyat Ki Sadaqat Ka Eik Zindah Nishan Hai, Anwar-ul-Ulum, Vol. 26, pp. 230-231)

The Holy Prophetsa appointed various envoys and deployed them with the task of calling unto Allah and for the destruction of some of the major idols. This has been recorded as follows:

After the Conquest of Mecca, the Holy Prophetsa sent envoys to various locations. In principle, these envoys were not for the purpose of battle or warfare. Their purpose was to spread the message calling unto Allah and to destroy idols which had been built in certain areas, which had served as a hindrance in accepting the oneness of God, as their fictitious, made-up fear had taken root in people’s hearts. This concept hindered them from accepting the One True God.

The majority of the Arabs held three idols or goddesses in high esteem, namely Lat, Manat and Uzza. The goddess Lat was in Ta’if and was honoured and revered throughout Arabia. People would take her name to swear oaths and would offer sacrifices to her. Amr bin Luhay, considered to be the founder of idol worship in Arabia, had made people think that, God forbid, Allah the Almighty would go to Lat in Ta’if during the winter and would spend the summers with Uzza. Manat was the oldest idol of the Arabs, located in ancient times by the seashore in Qudaid between Mecca and Medina. The Arabs honoured her and would offer sacrifices to her. The Aus and Khazraj tribes revered her to the extent that they would enter the state of Ihram by invoking the name of Manat. Out of reverence for her, they would not even run between Mounts Safa and Marwah. They would not shave their heads when they performed the pilgrimage and instead would stop at Manat on their way back, where they would shave their heads and stay. They would not consider their pilgrimage to be complete without doing this.

Uzza was the greatest idol of the Quraish, which was built near Nakhlah. They had created an altar for it where they would offer their sacrifices. They would name their people after her and would swear by her. Amr bin Luhay, who is considered among Arabs as the founder of idol worship, had so firmly established wrong beliefs about idols in people’s hearts that they were very afraid of the idols and greatly revered them, as I mentioned before. They thought, God forbid, that Allah the Almighty would spend different seasons with each of these idols. These concepts developed the honour of the goddess Uzza within people to such a degree that just as they brought gifts and offerings to the Ka’bah, they would bring the same to Uzza. This is the same idol whose name Abu Sufyan invoked, celebrating victory during the Battle of Uhud when he said:

 إِنَّ لَنَا الْعُزّٰى وَلَا عُزّٰى لَكُمْ

“We have Uzza and you have no Uzza.”

Thus, the Arabs revered these three idols, while Uzza was special to the Quraish, Lat was special to the Banu Thaqif, and Manat was special to the Aus and Khazraj.

According to the concept of the Arabs, these three idols were females, or goddesses. (Al-Lu’ Lu’ Al-Maknun Sirat Encyclopaedia, Vol. 9, Dar-ul-Islam, pp. 202-203 and 207; Al-Lu’ Lu’ Al-Maknun Sirat Encyclopaedia, Vol. 1, Dar-ul-Islam, p. 346; Tasavvurat-e-Arab Qabal Az Islam, Ubaidullah Qudsi, pp. 52-55; Ibn Hisham, Dar Al-Kotob Al-Ilmiyah, Beirut, p. 77; Sahih al-Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Jihad, Hadith 3039)

Whilst mentioning these three, the Holy Quran states:

اَفَرَءَیۡتُمُ اللّٰتَ وَالۡعُزّٰی۔ وَمَنٰوۃَ الثَّالِثَۃَ الۡاُخۡرٰی۔ اَلَکُمُ الذَّکَرُ وَلَہُ الۡاُنۡثٰی۔ تِلۡکَ اِذًا قِسۡمَۃٌ ضِیۡزٰی۔ اِنۡ ہِیَ اِلَّاۤ اَسۡمَآءٌ سَمَّیۡتُمُوۡہَاۤ اَنۡتُمۡ وَاٰبَآؤُکُمۡ مَّاۤ اَنۡزَلَ اللّٰہُ بِہَا مِنۡ سُلۡطٰنٍ ؕ اِنۡ یَّتَّبِعُوۡنَ اِلَّا الظَّنَّ وَمَا تَہۡوَی الۡاَنۡفُسُ ۚ وَلَقَدۡ جَآءَہُمۡ مِّنۡ رَّبِّہِمُ الۡہُدٰی

“Now tell me about Lat and ‘Uzza, And Manat, the third one, another goddess! ‘What! for you the males and for Him the females!’ That indeed is an unfair division. ‘These are but names which you have named – you and your fathers – for which Allah has sent down no authority.’ They follow naught but conjecture and what their souls desire, while there has already come to them guidance from their Lord (yet they still do not understand).” (The Holy Quran, 53:20-24)

As was mentioned before, immediately after the Conquest of Mecca, the Holy Prophetsa instructed that the idol houses be demolished in order to eliminate the false fear and reverence that people had developed for them. This wise decision would prove to be blessed, because with the destruction of these idols, the false fear and awe that people had for them was eliminated and people came to believe that only the concept of the One God is true as presented by the Holy Prophetsa.

I will present a few incidents in the future, insha-Allah, of how these idols were destroyed and how these places were demolished, the reaction to it all and whether or not there was any opposition.

After the Friday prayer, I will also lead two funeral prayers in absentia. One is of respected Chaudhary Abdul Ghafoor Sahib, son of Chaudhary Ghulam Qadir Sahib of Jamshoro, Hyderabad. He recently passed away at the age of 92.

اِنَّا لِلّٰہِ وَاِنَّا اِلَیْہِ رَاجِعُوْنَ

[“Surely, to Allah we belong and to Him shall we return.”]

He hailed from a family of landowners. In the early 1900s, he moved from Bagodakot to Kot Ahmadiyya. Out of love for the Jamaat and Khilafat, his father sent him to Qadian in 1942 to obtain higher religious and secular education. Chaudhary Sahib studied there until the migration to Pakistan and benefited from the company of the elders and Companions. After coming to Pakistan, Chaudhary Ghafoor Sahib completed his education in Chiniot and Rabwah. Later, he obtained his mechanical engineering degree from Karachi.

He retired in 1993, after which he dedicated his life to the service of the faith. He had the opportunity to serve on a project in Uganda for two years.

He was a brave son of Ahmadiyyat. He had a big heart when it came to serving humanity. He would try to help those in financial need without any discrimination. He was at the forefront of offering financial sacrifices. He served as Qaid Ilaqa and rendered great services under Ansarullah. He served for a long time as Secretary Umur-e-Aama for Hyderabad. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IVrh appointed him as the Regional Amir of Nawab Shah and Naushahro Feroze, a responsibility which he undertook with great effort.

The deceased was a musi. He is survived by three sons and five daughters.

One of his daughters, Humairah Sahiba, says that he used to call serving humanity his bank balance and considered it a sure way to attaining the pleasure of Allah the Almighty. The needs of many Ahmadis and non-Ahmadis alike were fulfilled through him. Without discrimination, he tended to the financial needs of travellers, the sick and the destitute and would give them large sums. His passion for offering financial sacrifices for the Jamaat was prominent. When Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh announced a financial appeal for celebrating the centenary jubilee, he hearkened immediately and sold his home in Rabwah the very next day and gave the entire amount towards this appeal.

In 1966, when Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh visited Sindh after becoming the Khalifa, he also visited his home in Kot Ahmadiyya, Hyderabad. When the Qasr-e-Khilafat was being built in Rabwah in 1981, he was being considered to be sent by the government for a project in Africa, and this was a very good opportunity for him. When he went to Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh in order to consult him, he instructed him not to go there and instead to oversee the laying of the roof and other things for the Qasr-e-Khilafat he was having built. Hence, the very next day, he tended to this work and stayed there. However, Allah the Almighty also rewarded him. Afterwards, when he returned upon the completion of his leave, he received the same contract from the government. He would say that this happened solely due to the blessings of Khilafat.

He had a close connection with Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIIrh and Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IVrh, who would also visit his home. Similarly, when I was in Pakistan, I also had the opportunity to visit his home and stay there as well. He was very hospitable. In fact, once I had to travel to Sindh at night, at a time when the conditions were not very good. He said that he would take me. There was a torrential downpour of rain, and the streets were flooded; however, he took me and we reached our destination at night. I told him that he should spend the night there and return in the morning and that he should not go alone. However, he insisted and got back in his car and set out to return that same night. He was very courageous and brave.

His services for those [Ahmadis] imprisoned in the cause of Allah were truly commendable. He would personally visit prisons, liaise with the authorities, and make arrangements to ensure the prisoners were provided necessary facilities. His heart was filled with an extraordinary passion for serving humanity. He was deeply considerate towards his close relatives, and his daughter says that he rendered great service to the poor and the needy.

He harboured profound love for the institution of Khilafat. He was ever-ready to respond to every call of the Khalifa of the time. The subject of Khilafat was a regular feature of his daily conversations. Even his non-Ahmadi acquaintances frequently spoke of his righteousness and acknowledged the positive and virtuous impact he had on them.

He had an extensive circle of friends and was widely recognised everywhere as a devoted Ahmadi. He maintained cordial relations with many senior government officials and prominent political families of Sindh. He would often present them with the Holy Quran published by the Jamaat and openly introduce them to the teachings of the Jamaat. Whenever possible, he would also take them to Rabwah.

May Allah the Almighty grant him forgiveness and mercy and enable his children to continue his virtuous deeds.

The second mention is of respected Muhammad Ali Sahib of Chak 275, Kartarpur, Faisalabad, who recently passed away at the age of seventy.

اِنَّا لِلّٰہِ وَاِنَّا اِلَیْہِ رَاجِعُوْنَ

[“Surely, to Allah we belong and to Him shall we return.”]

By the grace of Allah, he was a musi. He is survived by three sons and five daughters. One of his sons is a missionary serving in Lusaka, Zambia, who could not attend the funeral due to his participation in the Jalsa Salana UK here.

[His son] Tahir Ahmad Saifi Sahib, who is a missionary, states that Ahmadiyyat entered his father’s family during the early days of the Second Khilafah, when his grandfather, Musa Sahib, accepted Ahmadiyyat and joined the Jamaat.

The deceased was regular in his prayers and fasting, and regularly offered Tahajjud. He had a cheerful and kind-hearted nature, was soft-spoken, sociable, and deeply devoted to the service of humanity. He always treated others with warmth and respect and was an extremely pious and sincere individual. He possessed a profound love for Khilafat. For every matter, he would write to the Khalifah of the time requesting prayers.

He quietly yet earnestly participated in Jama’at and religious activities and would contribute financially to the best of his ability. When MTA was launched, he did not own a television set. However, as soon as MTA began broadcasting, he immediately bought one so he could listen to the voice of the Khalifa live.

His son says, “I cannot recall a single call or appeal made by the Khalifa that my father did not wholeheartedly respond to.”

He treated non-Ahmadis with kindness and compassion. While working in a factory, he helped many non-Ahmadis secure employment there. However, as is sometimes the case, a few of those individuals lacked the decency to appreciate this kindness. Influenced by others, they filed complaints against him and pressured the management to have him dismissed. He was eventually removed from his position.

Despite this injustice, he remained silent and made no commotion. Instead, he presented his matter before Allah in prayer. Sometime later, the factory owner called him back and reinstated him to the very same position. However, he continued to treat even those who had wronged him with kindness, and he continued to assist them in their work.

It is said that it was this exemplary moral conduct – rather than verbal preaching – that inspired eight individuals in the city of Faisalabad to accept Ahmadiyyat.

May Allah the Almighty grant him forgiveness and mercy and enable his children to continue his righteous deeds.

(Official Urdu transcript published in the Daily Al Fazl International, 29 August 2025, pp. 2-6. Translated by The Review of Religions.)

The Eloquence and Articulacy of the Holy Quran

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The Promised Messiahas said: “The eloquence and articulacy of human beings is subject to vocabulary and possesses nothing more than rhymes. For example an Arab has written:

سافرت‭ ‬إلى‭ ‬روم‭ ‬و‭ ‬أنا‭ ‬جمل‭ ‬ماتوم

This means, I set out for Rome, and set out I did on a camel whose bowels were closed. It is obvious that these words at the end have only been employed for the purpose of rhyme. It is a miracle of the Holy Quran, however, that all of its words have been strung like pearls and placed precisely where they belong in such a manner that not a single word can be moved from one place and put somewhere else, or replaced with another word more apt, and despite all this, it contains all the necessary elements of rhyme, eloquence and articulacy.”

A certain individual praised a sufi who succeeded a line of religious divines and expressed his own view that the sufi apparently seemed to be a pious man, and if he was made to understand, it could be hoped that he would recognise the truth. The person submitted: “I have a relationship with him and if His Holiness would give me a letter addressed to him, I could take the letter to him and I trust that this will benefit him.” To this, the Promised Messiahas responded: “Stay here for a few more days. I shall wait for God Almighty Himself to instill something in my heart firmly in this connection before I write you this letter.” The Promised Messiahas went on to say: “Until such people receive an opportunity to stay in my company for a few days with steadfastness and good intentions, it is difficult that they should be moved. The heart must possess a passion for virtue and must be fearful out of a desire to attain the pleasure of God.”

(Malfuzat [English], Vol. 2, p. 104)

The Prophet’s love for hearing the Quran from others

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عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، رضى الله عنه قَالَ قَالَ لِي النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: اقْرَأْ عَلَىَّ الْقُرْآنَ‏‏.‏ قُلْتُ آقْرَأُ عَلَيْكَ وَعَلَيْكَ أُنْزِلَ قَالَ‏ إِنِّي أُحِبُّ أَنْ أَسْمَعَهُ مِنْ غَيْرِي.‏

Hazrat ‘Abdullahra narrated:

“The Prophetsa said to me, ‘Recite the Quran to me.’ I said, ‘Shall I recite it to you while it has been revealed to you?’ He replied, ‘I love to hear it from others.’”

(Sahih al-Bukhari, Kitab fada’ili l-qur’an, Bab mun ahabba an yasma‘a l-qur’ana min ghayrih, Hadith 5049)